Nakita Grinie

I've always been a student, very academically inclined. A book lover. Seriously, my idea of fun is sitting down to research a subject, analyze it to death, and then write a report on it.

So my career pre-children was perfect for me. I was a researcher at a non-profit, good-government watchdog organization. Basically, I researched and analyzed how local government was spending its money, whether through its various programs, it was being a good steward of the taxpayers' investment.

I loved the different projects I got to work on, I loved the engagement I got to experience with different members of the community, I loved the long hours spent reading and writing.

But there was something else I loved more, and that was my husband and our plans for starting a family. My husband Jonathan and I met when we were seniors in high school. In some ways, ours was a whirlwind romance – we fell in love quickly, we knew we were each other's soul mates and best friends. We decided when we were barely 18 that we wanted to get married.

That was where the whirlwind ended. Because although we were (and still are) madly in love, we are also both extremely practical and responsible. We agreed that marriage should wait until we finished college and had jobs. So that's what we did. We were engaged all through college, and got married a month after graduation, with both of us in secure jobs, Jonathan as a software engineer and me going from my part-time research internship to a full-time research position.

Well, being our practical, responsible selves, we both knew what we wanted in terms of a family. Our mothers had stayed home with us when we were pre-school aged, and we wanted the same thing for our children.

So, when I got pregnant two years into our marriage with our daughter Alex, I told my boss that when she was born, I would be resigning to become a full-time stay-at-home mom. Although he offered me the option to have a more flexible schedule or to go part-time, I was confident that I wanted to be home full-time with Alex. So, in July of 2004, Alex was born, and I became a stay-at-home mom.

Although the overwhelming majority of my time over the past ten years has been spent with my kids, I have also maintained a presence in my career as well. But it's always been on my terms – with the caveat that I am first and foremost a stay-at-home mom and would only work from home during naptimes, or when Jonathan was home with the kids, so that I wasn't taking time away from them. I've done multiple projects for the organization as well as for another organization. That's a huge benefit of the kind of work I do, and I feel grateful for living in the time I live in technologically – it's easy to do this work from home.

Apart from keeping my skills sharp and staying on my colleagues' radar, the continued work has also given me something that I know I would go crazy without – intellectual stimulation. I can always tell when I haven't worked on a project in awhile from my reading choices. I'm always reading something – that's a given. But when I'm working on a project that keeps me intellectually engaged, my reading choices are novels and chick lit. When I haven't had a project for awhile, the post-its and highlighters come out, and I read and take notes on a stack of non-fiction books on whatever subject I'm most interested in learning about at that point. Which is fun – but there's also something less than satisfying about researching and writing when you're not getting any financial compensation for it.

I started really feeling the pressure to do something financially lucrative last year when my younger daughter Wendy started school. As long as I had a child at home with me all day, I felt completely confident in my role as a stay-at-home mom.

However, with both children in school during the day and needing less intensive care when they are home, I feel more and more as if my role has morphed from stay-at-home mom to housewife.

And that's not something I'm comfortable with. I love planning and doing activities with my kids, and even the cooking for my family and errand running with my girls. The cleaning and obsessing over minute housekeeping details while I'm the only one in my home? Not so much.

So, over the past year, I've been working on building my brand as an allergy advocate and writer, getting published here and there, and slowly but surely getting myself back into the job market – albeit a job market that's flexible enough to allow me to maintain my primary role as a stay-at-home mom.

Hands down, the best part of being a stay-at-home mom who works from home a bit on the side is all the time I get to spend with my family.

I love spending lazy summer days with my girls, planning activities with them, taking them places, and being able to share their experiences with them as they grow.

I also love that I have the time to get chores and errands done during the day while the kids are at school and Jonathan is at work.  This allows the girls and me to enjoy our time together after school before the dinner and homework rush, for the four of us to spend restful time together as a family before the bedtime rush, and to not have a rush at all on the weekends when the four of us can have fun together.

I also think that, when stay-at-home moms talk about not wanting to go back to work because they wouldn't be able to get everything done, this is what a lot of them are talking about.

I read a book recently, Leslie Bennetts' "The Feminine Mistake", in which the author posits that a stay-at-home mom's choice to become financially dependent on her husband is a huge mistake. In her book, Bennetts dismisses as ridiculous the notion that it is insurmountably difficult for working mothers to provide domestic necessities to their families such as home-cooked meals and fully-stocked pantries:  "While the job of feeding a family requires some elementary organizational skills and a willingness to plan a few days ahead, it is hardly impossible, as any number of working women can attest.  But stay-at-home mothers typically describe their domestic contributions as if there were no conceivable way a woman could manage to work and also put nutritious food on the table at night." (28)

When I read this, I felt like I had to defend my fellow stay-at-home moms a bit.  I don't for one second think I'm indispensable.  I know that if I got a full-time job, Jonathan and I would still manage to feed our kids nutritious meals, get the errands done, and accomplish all the homework and extracurriculars (although I am not promising the house would stay clean -- I have a feeling that would be my sacrifice!)

The thing is that I feel like a huge benefit of me being a stay-at-home mom is that all that necessary stuff gets accomplished without us having to rush around.  We don't have to sacrifice the leisurely pace that helps us all to recharge and enjoy each other's company.

One more advantage of my situation is that I have the opportunity to be a part of my kids' community -- I'm at their school all the time, I'm friends with their friends' parents, and I am friendly with their teachers and school administrators. This is something that's important to me because I loved my own mom being a part of my school community when I was a kid.  I feel like my presence at school helps my kids to feel confident and secure in their place there.  I love that I get to see them everyday when I volunteer at lunchtime and get the rundown of what happened in the morning -- before they forget it all by the time I pick them up at the end of the day.  They love that they get free reign of the school even during non-school hours because they're there with me setting up for a breakfast or closing up the book fair.
I also love being part of the girls' school community for a very practical reason -- Alex's food allergies.  When she started going to school full-day in first grade, I didn't feel comfortable that she would be able to keep herself safe at the lunch table surrounded by peanut butter sandwiches and carrots with ranch dip (She has severe allergies to both peanuts and eggs.).  So I took advantage of the school's accommodating volunteer policy to be at lunch everyday.  In exchange for cleaning tables in between lunch periods, I got to keep an eye on Alex when she was eating lunch to educate her as she learned how to stay away from her allergens. The fact that I'm at the school everyday also makes me very approachable.  Alex's teachers know I'll be there at lunch and often seek me out to ask me questions about buying safe treats for a classroom ice cream party or the principal will ask for my input in EpiPen storage or the advisability of a peanut-free lunch table. Being a stay-at-home mom allows me to gain experience and credibility in something that has become a key part of my identity over the last few years, both as a mother and as a career focus -- a food allergy advocate.
Now, onto the challenges of being a stay-at-home, slightly work-from-home mom. I've already touched on what I feel to be my number one challenge -- my identity is tied too much to my housewifely duties.  Just because I'm transitioning from being a hands-on stay-at-home mom of little kids into a mom with more time on her hands during the day while her kids are at school, I sometimes find myself focusing too much on things that don't contribute to being a parent per se, but more to being a housewife -- obsessing over what foods I have in the pantry that need to be eaten, making sure to rid the house of clutter every morning and to make all the beds.  And because the nature of cleaning dictates that there's always more to do, I find myself getting so involved in the chores that I don't give myself enough time to write. At base, my challenge is that I feel like I need to be doing something all the time to compensate for the fact that I don't have a paying job and that I don't have kids at home to care for.  So I make myself busy cleaning and obsessing over house details because I worry that sitting down and writing would be a waste of time because I'm not getting paid for it. A related challenge that I find from being a stay-at-home mom with kids in school is that being alone in the house leads to me becoming too inward-focused and introspective.  As a result, I think about how I'm stuck at home cleaning while my family is out having more interesting adventures.  I get resentful because I feel like I'm sacrificing my intellectual pursuits to make a nice house for my family, and I'm just not appreciated enough for it. Of course, I won't deny that there is some truth to my being underappreciated -- I actually think this is an occupational hazard of being a parent -- any type of parent.  However, being in the house alone makes me dwell on my role too much, and I have a tendency to forget that even though Jonathan does get to go downtown to work everyday, he is also shouldering the burden of providing financially for us, which isn't easy, and the kids are spending the day at school doing their job as well.  None of my family's lives is all roses and butterflies, so sometimes I just need to get over myself.
One more challenge is the flip side to my happiness about being able to be so involved in my kids' lives.  Even though both my kids and I love the fact that I'm in their school so much, I also am concerned that they're too dependent on me being there.  I want them to grow to be more independent, but just the fact that I'm there all the time means that I naturally do a lot for them, and therefore, they don't have to learn to do some things for themselves.

In terms of the roles that Jonathan and I play in our family ( me as a stay-at-home mom, him as a working dad), this is pretty much exactly the way I expected my life to be pre-kids.  And I've really enjoyed it.  I've loved being home with the kids for ten years, and I know how lucky we are that Jonathan's salary is plenty for us to live on.
As far as expectations go, I have been surprised by how my feelings have changed as my kids have gotten older. Both before I had kids and while I was in the midst of raising pre-school age kids, I was always very gung-ho in my belief that being a stay-at-home mom was the best choice -- for me.  I never had illusions that being a stay-at-home mom was the best choice for every woman, and I wasn't judgmental about other women's choices.  But I was always very confident that my being a stay-at-home mom was the best choice for me. As a result of my certainty in those beliefs, I've been kind of blindsided by how much my feelings have changed as my kids have gotten older.  I always knew they would grow up and become less dependent on me, but I think that knowledge was always a kind of amorphous, sometime-in-the future kind of understanding.  Now that my children's independence is becoming more concrete and in-my-face, I'm surprised by how important having my own career is becoming to me.  I'm surprised by the vehemence of my feelings that being a stay-at-home mom isn't enough for me anymore, that I need something outside of my family to define myself. Something that has really been hammered home for me, especially in the last few months, is that it's okay to feel extremely confident that the choice you're making is exactly right for you and your family at the point of life you're in, and then a few years later to feel that a different choice is absolutely right for you and your family.  Just because I was confident that my choice to be a stay-at-home mom was right for me when I had two young children doesn't mean that it's wrong to want to be a working mom with older kids.

Being a stay-at-home mom while keeping a toe in my career from home was absolutely my ideal situation for a long time. Now I'm at a point where I think the ideal situation for both myself and my family would be for me to have more of a real job, but a job with enough flexibility to be there to take the kids to and from school and still maintain a strong volunteer presence at school -- basically changing my focus while the girls are at school from doing chores and errands with just a dab of work to doing intellectually stimulating work with a little bit of house maintenance thrown in. A pipe dream?  Could be, but I'm working on it.

I hope it doesn't take five or ten years for me to achieve the transition I'm looking for!  I hope to find a more comfortable role for myself and my family in the next year.

As my thoughts and feelings about being a stay-at-home mom have changed over the past year, my most profound moments of mommy guilt have been as a result of worrying that I'm planning on moving the goal posts on my girls. My life has revolved around them for their whole lives, and I've been fine with it.  Now, all of a sudden, I feel like I need something more, and I worry that such a change isn't fair to them. As a result of this guilt, for several months, I didn't even entertain the idea of taking on a more traditional job; instead, I've been focused on trying to build up my own brand and doing more from-home things that would just work around my main focus of being a stay-at-home mom. But, recently I had a serious discussion with both girls about what the most important things in their lives are for me to a part of.  Both of them were very mature and told me that their bottom line is that they want me to be there to volunteer at their lunch periods, they want me to run the book fair, and they want me to be there at bedtime.  They're both okay with occasional deviations from the norm -- I can miss a lunch period here and there if I have a meeting, for example. Jonathan has also stepped up to the plate.  It's important to him for me to be happy, and he has shown in words and actions that he's willing to take on more of the home responsibilities in order to accommodate me working more. These discussions with my family have made me feel so much better.  They understand that writing is important to me, and they want to accommodate me because they love me.
So, my bottom line when confronting mommy guilt is that it isn't something you should confront alone.  Don't just sit around dwelling on how what you do will affect your kids.  You aren't the only one who makes choices that affect your whole family.  If you wouldn't begrudge your talented child from taking on a sport that takes up huge chunks of family time, or your husband from taking a few graduate classes to better his career prospects, don't begrudge yourself opportunities that come along for your own improvement. Your family will adjust, you will adjust.  You all love each other, so work together to figure it out.

How do meals work in your family? One may not think that there are benefits to your child being diagnosed with life-threatening food allergies, but there are.  One huge benefit is that Jonathan and I have become foodies; we've had to learn to read labels, become creative when cooking (Peanuts aren't hard to leave out of recipes, but try baking and frying without eggs!), and really pay attention to different ingredients and recipes.  As a result, we love to cook now.
During the week, I typically cook two dinners, which we then eat on those nights and for leftovers throughout the rest of the work week.  Then on a weekend day, when Jonathan has more time, he will cook one of his specialties. Some of the meals that are crowd pleasers for our whole family: 1.  Tacos -- We either have regular tacos or a nacho bar; both are big hits with the girls.  We usually do chicken tacos since we all love them, but sometimes we make ground beef tacos too, when Jonathan or I get a craving for them. 2.  Chicken Pot Pie -- This recipe is seriously addictive; we all drool over it.  I make two of them, and the four of us polish them off in two meals.  Since the crust is made with buttermilk, I will usually also make buttermilk chicken the same week, as well as a batch of waffles and pancakes.  We either eat the pancakes and waffles with bacon, fruit, and muffins as a breakfast for dinner meal, or I let the girls have them for breakfasts for a few days and then freeze the rest to thaw out for special breakfasts for the kids. 3.  Pizza -- Jonathan makes wonderful grilled pizza, which he customizes for everyone.  He and Wendy like cheese pizza, I like either margherita or feta and spinach, and Alex (She's a little strange in her tastes) likes no sauce, no cheese, just bacon or chicken, broccoli, and she has been known to have french fries on her pizza as well.
Check out my website for more allergy-friendly recipes; Jonathan and I have perfected quite a few!

How do you keep your house clean?
  I don't.  Just kidding!  (sort of). I am not a fan of house cleaning, but I am a fan of having a clean house.  Basically, I make sure have a reasonably clean house every morning (beds made, toys and random clutter put away where it belongs, clean kitchen, and swept floors).  After breakfast in the summers, the girls and I will go through the house doing those chores, and after I drop off the girls at school during the year, I will do these chores.  Then I have a reasonably clean house to live in throughout the day. The more deep cleaning stuff, we do when we can see it needs to be done.  Alex and I do the laundry three times a week. Check out some of my day-in-the-life posts if you're interested in more of the day-to-day details of my cleaning schedule. Thanks to Julia for this series and for showing interest in how I "make it work"; I hope I've been insightful!

{Thank you, Amy! Find the rest of the MMIW series here}

One of the perks about living in California is that if you drive 1-2 hours in any direction, you can end up at the beach, the mountains, wine country, farm land or desert.
We have quite the scenic variety here in the Golden State.

Even though we live just a short car ride to the beach, we rarely go.
I know, I know.

The girls put on their Summer list that they wanted to go to the beach & since we aren't going to Tahoe this summer (for the first time EVER...can't travel far because baby is on the way) I decided that we would do a day trip to the beach.
We went during the week thinking it would be less crowded, but we just so happened to go the day of a Junior Lifeguard Competition. The beach was PACKED with junior lifeguards & the competitions that they had going on. It made for good people watching. I think there should be a new reality TV show called "Lifeguard Moms". These moms were intense, just like Dance Moms. It was quite entertaining to watch.

The girls had fun playing in the water & sand with Kevin and I was quite content people watching & reading.

This bird kept trying to eat my Cheez-its. Rude bird. And, is it just me or do Cheez-Its taste so much better at the beach?

After several hours on the beach, it was time for an ice cream break.
One of my favorite things about going to the beach is walking around the beach towns.

Beach towns have so much character & I love the quaintness.

I loved these Victorian Beach houses that were right across the street from the beach. I think they would be so fun to stay in next summer (hint, hint)

Isn't this pink cruiser awesome? It is EXACTLY what I have been looking for.
Wouldn't it be a great push present? (hint, hint)

Despite the crowd, we had a great day at the beach & I hope to make beach trips more of an occurrence since we live so close!

And, don't forget tomorrow is The Summer Salad Swap Link up!
I have a yummy salad to share with you!

My heart just jumped into my throat as I typed the words 'six months'. A half of a year. Wow.

(please note how many more chevron lengths she takes up compared to her first month! I try to keep her shoulders in the same place each month. Long girl)


(and look how much taller she's gotten compared to the bunny in the first month. Top of bunny used to touch her ear and now it's at her shoulder. These comparisons always blow my mind.)


Likes: Nursing, being held, making eye contact with others, mommy, watching her big brother and her doggie play, 'talking', drooling, shoving any and everything into her mouth, grabbing faces/hair/fingers of others, being around people

Dislikes: being left alone for longer than a minute or two, consistency with sleeping, being overtired



Biggest Achievement of the Month: Flying on an airplane! And cutting her first TWO teeth!

Biggest Challenge of the Month: Probably sleep but really, what else is new?



The Mecca (aka Sleep): This month I tried having her nap on her tummy occasionally and sometimes it seemed to help her sleep longer than 30 minutes, but other times not so much. If I put her down awake on her stomach she'd pop her head up, like 'Oh hey! Tummy time! I know what to do here, look at me holding my head up really high!' So I'd have to put her down nearly asleep and even then it wasn't consistent. She will nap about 3 times a day for me when home, and twice a day for Lori at daycare. Each nap can be anywhere from 30 minutes up to 2 hours (for Lori, never for me) and I'd say the average is about an hour each time. I feel like we actually are settling into a good napping routine though, which really helps a lot with my mental sanity even if the nights still suck. I'll rock her a bit with the pacifier in her mouth and then put her down as she is drowsy but awake.

Now the nighttime suckiness? She is averaging anywhere from 2-5 wake ups each night. One night this month she clocked 7 hours in a row (until 2:15), then went another 3 and I almost cried from happiness. But her norm is that she's usually up around midnight first time (5 hrs), and then every 2 hours after that. During our Missouri trip she was seriously up every 2-3 hours all night long with her longest stretch of sleep being just 3 hours. She's pulled that stunt at home, too, and I'm getting to the point where I'm CRAVING consistency here in sleep deprivation land.

Another weird thing is that she doesn't always tolerate nursing in sidelying, falling back to sleep without a peep anymore. Now she will squawk at me until I sit all the way up with her, and sometimes she only pipes down if I physically stand up. What? No thanks. If you are going to wake up a ton of times you at LEAST need to fall back to sleep in 5 seconds, Cecelia. When will you learn that sleep is freaking fantastic? Soon, I hope. Because I think I'm starting to forget how wonderful life seems with a little bit of zzzzzs.

(first fire in the fireplace! Love this shot)


Temperament/Personality: She's a happy little bugger who is incredibly social and curious. I love the fact that she is smiling more often than she's not lately. Happy babies, even ones who don't sleep well, are just the best. But she still has her moments for sure. This whole month she gave her daddy hell each time he watched her for me as I was out of the house. She even cried so hard that she actually puked one time. Sweet. But then she had a really fabulous daddy experience with our most recent attempt while I was at the Christmas parade, so perhaps we are finally moving into a phase when Nate can care for Cecelia a bit more without her biting his head off. I know for a fact that he was able to help with Truman a lot more by 6 months. Someday she will be a daddy's girl but for now she's still all about Milk Jug Mama. She WILL light up and flash her most heartwarming grin when she sees Nate enter a room though. It's like she has that special smile reserved just for him and he even got her to belly laugh for the first time this month. Before that it's been all little giggles, mostly at Truman's antics. This time Nate got her going really good by slapping his hand down on his knee, telling Cecelia that she has a 'crazy arm' (which she does). Hilarious daddy. She's 'for real' laughed almost every day since that big time with Nate. I love her laugh and hope she keeps giving them to us without much effort---it's the best.



Eating: Cecelia still loves to nurse and I'm still incredibly grateful for our nursing relationship. She takes both sides more frequently now and still loves to fall asleep at the breast, so I end up pulling her off to end a session pretty frequently. I'm trying to stick to the eat-play-sleep routine which should put a stop to the dreaded sleep/nurse but it's a work in progress. I usually go 3-4 hours between nursing sessions but if I do push it to the 4 hour mark, I will always let down right at 3 hours. Like my body says, 'Hey! Time to nurse the baby again, it's been 3 hours!' Not sure I was still having random let downs without nursing the first time around.

I haven't introduced any rice cereal or oatmeal to Cecelia's diet, and just in the past two days I've let her try a few nibbles of bananas, avocados, and sweet potatoes. It's taken me a week to write this post and originally I was going to say that she's never had anything but breast milk, but now with the last few days under our belt I can say she's at least attempted a few specks of real food (just specks because she seems SO shocked that what enters her mouth has actual taste aside from milk!)

I don't think cereal is worth the hassle at this point and all it really did was constipate Truman and waste my breast milk. Still unsure if I want to skip purees and go right to chunks of food a la Baby Led Weaning or go the conventional route of spoon-to-mouth. Should probably decide soon and for some reason I feel like my Pediatrician won't be entirely pleased with me for pushing off all solids this long (although it's recommended to start solids at 4-6 months, so I'm just on the later side of that norm). I'm pretty sure she is growing just fine on her all-breastmilk diet so it shouldn't matter, right? She also seems to have a wicked gag reflex and taking Tylenol or her vitamin drops is a nightmare, so I'm kind of dreading giving her real food. We'll see. I did just make a batch of pureed sweet potatoes and squash today and when she tried a few hunks of squash she didn't gag all that much. I suppose we will start trying some bites of food and also some purees and see where that takes us. Pretty exciting stuff at 6 months!
(I love this pic of her so much!)


CC will take either two or three 5 oz bottles while at Lori's, so either 10 or 15 oz total in those 8 hours. Then she will nurse another 3 times during work days and variable amounts at night. So I guess I'd say she eats about 5-7 times during the daytime hours and then another 2-5 times at night, too. Girl loves to eat which is fine by me.

And I'll put this here: she may not be eating with us at the table just yet but she is now sitting in the booster seat during meal times. SO cute. What a big milestone, simply because I have two free hands to eat my own dinner now. She seems to love sitting there like a big girl, too, playing with her toys and looking from face to face with excitement.





The Superficial: Her signature long bang look is still hanging around and she's still a red headed, blue eyed doll. Her 6 month pants are officially WAY too short now although I can't quite retire them yet. Meaning she sports capris in 30 degree weather. But 6 month tops fit pretty well so we are officially between 6 and 9 months for her outfits simply because of her freakishly long legs. I finally put away the pack-n-play this month because she would not fit in there anymore to get her diaper changed unless I put her at a weird angle. We are officially changing her diaper on the ground on a blanket now, which makes her seem like a big girl to me! She is now 27 inches tall which is about the 90th percentile, and 15lbs 14oz which is right around 50th percentile. My long and lean girl.

(6 month capris!)


(hair)






Teeth: New category, because baby girl sprouted her first tooth during our trip to Missouri on 11.20.12--a little over a week before she turned 6 months old. She never had a fever and I didn't notice a change in her sleeping habits (because she was already waking up at least 3-4 times the nights preceding the tooth), but she did seem extra fussy and clingy for me. Then my mom and I both noticed the clear little line on her bottom right gum line and sure enough--the sharp little nubbin had already poked through! Poor baby! I got her some Tylenol to take that next night hoping it would help her with sleep and pain (it didn't make a difference) and then on the morning of 11.23.12 right after Thanksgiving, the bottom left tooth appeared. Truman got his first two teeth within days of each other but it was more like 6.5 months so apparently she is a little ahead of him in this category. I can't wait to see these baby teeth become more visible and really do pray that her sleep will improve now that they are out. Isn't the milestone of the first tooth such an exciting and scary one? Makes her seem less like a baby and more like a little girl.











Motor Milestones: I thought I would be able to say she was rolling around all over the place by 6 months but she really doesn't seem to care about rolling. At all. She HAS rolled but only about two times ever. I'm not really worried about it just yet because she just really seems content to hang on her tummy or her back without actually trying to get mobile. She can scoot and wiggle and do half rolls to the point that she is getting all folded up against her crib these days, which makes her REALLY mad when she slams her head against the rails. I'll find her in the weirdest positions when I walk back into the room and one of these days she will figure out how to roll consistently and crawl. But not yet.



(did not edit any of these pictures--her eyes are THAT amazing!)


She can prop-sit for a bit and sit unsupported for about two seconds before toppling over, or resting her belly on her thighs. But sister is obsessed with standing up right now. Obviously supported, but still---she will lock out her knees and just stand up with pretty good core control for minutes. We have to physically force her to sit down most of the time because she is just too proud of herself for standing. We can prop her up against the back of a couch while standing and she will hold on before losing her balance---so maybe she just doesn't care about rolling or sitting or crawling and prefers to be completely upright instead. Just has to learn to get into that position on her own, though, which will definitely be many more months.







Out and About: The big news here is that Cecelia made her first plane trip to Missouri for Thanksgiving. I wasn't too worried about how she'd handle the short 50 minute flight and she did great. She nursed for take off and then was a little fussy for a few minutes upon descent for our first flight, and then on the return flight she nursed and slept the entire time. When awake she loved looking around at all of the people on the plane because she's just that social and nosey. She also blew out her diaper on both planes which was just awesome. After my traumatizing experience trying to change Truman's diaper in an airport bathroom without a changing table, I decided to endure the stench and wait until we landed to change her. Good decision but still gross.

While in Missouri she handled the constant stimulation and unfamiliar surroundings pretty well, but her sleep was pretty horrendous. Not sure if that was from being out of her comfortable environment or the new teeth but whatever. We all survived just fine on our 'vacation' because we had nothing to do but lounge and visit and nap and spend time with family. Heaven.



Firsts: two first teeth a week before turning six months, first time in booster seat, first airplane trip, first time outside of Wisconsin, first time sleeping anywhere besides her own home,

Favorite Baby Gear: Nothing really new this month. Nuk brand pacifiers. Ergo carrier. Cheapy little booster seat. Jumparoo.





Little Sister and Big Brother: At six months, Truman had found his feet (Cecelia hasn't except for when she is prop sitting and then she chews her feet) was rolling consistently (Cecelia is not), and was eating rice cereal (not for our girl). But both of these babes can be labeled 'subpar sleepers' with at least 2-3 wake ups per night. And they both like to nurse and are super happy and adorable (biased opinion). Truman let Nate help out a lot more with soothing than Cecelia will allow, but CC is still pretty social and loves interacting with others just like Truman always did. They both have done great at daycare at the 6 month mark. She is still a dainty, petite version of her giant-baby brother, with red hair and blue eyes (Truman's were already hazel by now). I definitely feel more 'attached' to Cecelia at this point than I did with Truman, from what I can remember anyway, because I am the one who attends to/feeds/soothes/puts back to sleep with her. She loves to be worn and loves to be held, so I just think she is more of a mommy's girl than Truman was a mommy's boy. She's definitely more stubborn and opinionated (Estrogen rules!). But then again, that might be my momnesia flaring up again and maybe I felt attached at the hip to my son, too.



Currently Cecelia is still in love with her big brother and he returns the love right back to baby sis. Sometimes if she is napping upstairs he will say, 'I want to see Cece right now!' or 'Where is my sister?' And he's genuinely upset if I don't let him see her immediately. When he sees her he will say, 'Oh, HI, baby!' and will get right in her face to smile and give unprompted kisses. For real. So why wouldn't she love him to death, right? If she hears his voice she will search around for him until she spots the big guy and then she will smile at him as they speak their own sibling language.



I love you, Cecelia/Cease/Cecil/CC. You are the best daughter I could have ever asked for and I cannot wait to watch you grow. But I'd like to keep you little forever, too ;)